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I love to
network at business events. I'm sure you have been to a
few of these; Chamber of commerce after hours events,
breakfast meetings, association meetings...the list goes on
and on. They are a great way to make contact with
potential clients, peers, and those who can refer you into
some business or organization.
What I can't
stand are the people who act like they are interested in
meeting with you, but only until they think they have found
someone better to meet. I recently
attended a breakfast meeting at an organization, and while
having a conversation with someone, another person who was
obviously new to the group came up and introduced himself.
That's great! Then he proceeded to me all about himself,
and after a few minutes of his self-congratulatory resume', he
asked me a question about myself. As I began to respond
he saw someone else, turned on his fake
smile, and immediately turned to talk with that person.
I was left to talk with myself. (I wonder, if someone
answers a question and there is no one there to hear it, does
it really happen?)
He finally
finished his conversation with the other person, turned to me,
again smiled (big teeth smile, by the way) and told me it was
great to meet me and walked off. I immediately checked
my breath.
What a great
first impression! I hope I never run into this guy
again. What kind of first impression do you make when
you attend a networking event, or any other meeting for that
matter? If you ask someone a question about themselves,
their business, or their family, have the courtesy to listen.
You might learn something.
Does anyone
have any Tic Tacs?
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